Thinking outside the square!

Acquiring a disability later in life is definitely a challenge,

many of the things I took for granted I can not do now. 

I guess walking is one of them, 

funnily enough, its not really important any more,

as my friend Reen says --

"Walking is highly overrated. Reading is not" 

She like me, is a great reader, 

now of course I read with my ears not my eyes,

when the nights are long there is nothing better than a book 

to keep you company.

No, I am wrong, a cold nose and a warm fluffy neck,

beats everything else hands down.

In case you still haven't realised, the best thing that has happened to me in the last few years is Midnight!!

Remember, he is that large, black, peanut butter lover!!

He is now too big to fit on my bed,

and definitely too heavy to climb on my lap, 

so no more cuddles.

I think I miss the cuddles more than anything else.

Being me, this is a long rambling story, so be patient! 

[just like I am supposed to be] ---   :-))

I have a new piece of equipment,

This is my ceiling hoist, 

it runs on a track from the corner of the room to my bed.

It is used to get me in and out of my wheel chair.

Stupidly I refused to use one,

until my arm got too weak to hold me. 

Now of course I realise how silly I was

not to get it  a long time ago.

It is much more comfortable than my old manual hoist, 

that made me feel so sick that I would only use it 

when I was very unwell, 

that of course made the ride even worse!!

The great thing about the ceiling hoist is - 

I CAN OPERATE IT MYSELF 

=  INDEPENDENCE!!!!

Now back to my curly haired boy.

Sometimes I need to give him a cuddle,

just like everyone else, 

when we have had a difficult day

and nothing has gone right, 

I need to be able to show him how much I love him, 

but I cant, 

that makes me so sad that I feel like crying.

Lying in bed the other night I was feeling so low,

that I knew I had to find a way to get closer to My Boy.

The hoist was the answer, 

with a little help from Jessika I maneuvered myself out of bed and down near the floor

[first time I have done that voluntarily, for a lot of years!!!!

This was the result ------ 

Our first real cuddle as equals.

So many kisses on that beautiful face.

Licking off my tears of happiness.

Next I pressed the button and lay on the ground with my dog next to me.

I might not have looked so good, but the feeling was wonderful.

Here is a last hug

before I got back into my bed.

Do you know what the best thing is --- 

I can do it whenever I want.

 Isn't life wonderful when you have a puppy to love.

Enjoy the Day!!

Midnight's Castle.

This is Midnight's Castle, 

everyone else would call it a dog crate.

He loves it so much, it is his own little space that not even Nacho is allowed to take over.

As you can see it is huge and very comfortable,

two double bed size woolen blankets 

and his large fluffy sheep skin.

Sometimes he reorganises it and you will find his "sheepy" on the floor with his kongs and favourite toys.

He always has trouble getting them back in again,  so he will sleep half in and half out of his castle, looks really uncomfortable, but it doesnt worry him.

Yesterday half the family came to visit 

and this is what he found when he went to have a nap -

three girls and a robot!!!!!

When we were at Ventnor he found something that was even more comfortable than his castle --

Niki's trundle bed.

What a life for a puppy.

Until next time ------ hug a puppy!!

I could not resist this picture of Indi and the boy,
the castle is becoming a favourite spot for cuddles!

Who will I find in it next?

Self Advocacy!!

 Tully runs the Peer Support  Network, at Yooralla.

A while ago she asked if I would write something about self advocacy for the blog.

I thought about it for a while and decided to put a slightly different slant on things.

As usual these days the grammar is a bit strange,

but here it is ----------------

People who do not have a disability often wonder why 

    I am frequently complaining about something.

I am not really a negative person, 

but because I live in a wheel chair, the system makes me appear that way.

 Just imagine if you could not drive, and the public transport system was not accessible,

Or the driver "can’t see you" 

because he just cannot be bothered pressing a button, or getting out of his cab and loading you.

You want to go shopping, but you can't get into the shop because there is a step, or worse still,

a whole flight of stairs! 

Narrow doorways, counters that are high, shops with crowded aisles, too high shelves, checkout lanes that are too narrow!

       AND shopping carts!! 

They are almost impossible to wheel ,even without trying to dodge other shoppers.

The list of problems seems to be endless and sometimes overwhelming.

These are the things I thought of, when Tully asked me to write something about self advocacy.

 Then I thought again, these are big problems that concern everyone who is disabled, 

 we all need to work together to get these changes.

Personal advocacy can be the little things that happen day by day.

 Each time I ask if chairs could be moved at a little street café, [so I can get through], I am advocating for myself.

If I come back another day and the chairs have been rearranged, I know I have succeeded in making a difference for all of us.

I think the secret is to smile and explain to people 

what you need and why, most people like to help if they can.

Now, my local butcher, small supermarket, fruit shop and variety shop all greet me at the door with a smile and happily organize everything for me.

These may be small things, but they make my day easier and happier.

 I hope they also help other people become aware of our needs.

           

              REMEMBER, SELF ADVOCACY 

                 BREAKS DOWN BARRIERS!

Well that is what I wrote, I hope it makes  people think.

Here is a link to The Peer Support Network ----

  http://tully.tinbrain.net/

                                     

                                   

       Until next time --- Hug a Puppy and love yourself!!

More Midnight!

 Midnight is almost nine months old!

Have you ever seen a pair of eyes like these,

when Middi looks at me like this, I melt, 

he is so trusting and loving.

This is my problem, 

it is my responsibility to help him become the best Asistance dog he can possibly be.

Sometimes I feel I cant do it, that I am not good enought, 

this is when I need to look back at all the things we have both learned,

IN LESS THAN SIX MONTHS!

We have learned to trust each other enough to travel 7kms in any direction from our home, we can go on trains,

ride in hoist buses together,

attend council meetings 

and even go through the scarry underpasses. 

I can protect Midnight from potentially dangerous dogs

and he gives me the courage to attempt things I would not do before having him.

None of these things would we have been able to do 

without the help of "Chris".

We met when I was looking for a puppy school for Middi.

I wanted us to learn basic obedience skills

and him to play with other pups.

The trouble was, we couldnt get up the stairs

at the puppy school, so Chris came to us! 

This is her web site ---

http://www.baybark.com.au/index.html 

it explains the way she teaches - always positively

and with patience. 

Midnight and I, are her first "disabled team", 

so it is a learning experience for all of us.

Here she is with her own dogs --

read about them on her web site.

Here she is working with Middi --

"sitting" beautifully for a treat.

practicing "look".

having a cuddle at the end of a session.

walking with "Angel", 

it is very important that Middi learns to walk on a lead, not just in his harness.

this is Kimmy, she is Chris's rescue dog,
she doesn't stand any nonsense 
from adolesent poodle boys!
I have a prettier picture of Kimmy, but I love tongues!!


This is a very small part of the training Chris and I do together.
I think I am very lucky to have found someone as caring and dedicated, 
who can also put up with
unsure 66 year old wheelies!!!!!


Next time I will talk about what we do in our sessions together.


Until then --- love a puppy, [and yourself]

A Garden Update

I looked at "Midnights Mountain" yesterday, it is amazing how the pumpkin vines have grown.

They have covered the mountain, the path, the garage roof and now they have climbed over the wysteria, the magnolia, the bottle brush and now they are climbing the sycamore.

I peeped through the giant leaves and there is a pumpkin the size of a tennis ball hanging from a branch, higher up 

than my head.

The biggest pumpkin is now the size of a squashed soccer ball, well that is what I am told, 

I cannot see it because it is too far into the jungle.

Here is the latest photo.....

a little hard to see, but it is in there!

My tomatoes are starting to ripen, 

there are dozens on the bushes, but I think the strange weather is not helping them ripen.We might be eating green tomato chutney this winter.

I planted a different variety of egg plant this year,

this is what I found yesterday ----

isn't it beautiful, pale purple with white stripes.

So far I can only see two, I hope more come soon.

As you know, I love taking closeups of my plants,

here are a few I took on Sunday.

a pumpkin flower,

the sun shining through a pumpkin leaf,

tiny toadstools among the strawberries.

I love my garden, I dont get a lot of produce from it,

but just watching the plants growing is magic.

Until next time ----- smell a tomato

AND

hug a puppy!!!

More garden miracles

My garden never ceases to amaze me.

Last winter I threw the seeds from my beautiful pumpkin onto "Midnights mountain" -- a hill of old garden soil that was piled up at the side of the house .

This photo shows Sekoya on the mountain, 

just before Christmas,

just a neat little plant.

The next photo was taken mid January!!

Midnights mountain has disappeared.

Look at the size of the leaves,

Laurence is holding my house phone!!!!!

The next photos were taken on the 30th of January.

It is almost impossible for me to get to the garage,

the pumpkin is trying to reach the side of the house.

Look what Jessika has found!

She said there are more, I hope they grow!

Will this flower become a pumpkin??

The weather has become so hot and humid, I hope everything keeps thriving.

Until next time --- Keep cool!!

I'm seven months!

Look at me, I am seven months old

and I have beautiful eyes!!

Until next time ----- Hug a puppy!

The MAGIC time!

We have had so much rain and sun over the last two weeks that my garden has gone crazy.

It is the  time when everything suddenly has a growth spurt and tiny vegetables magically appear.

First the tiny tomatoes pop out, this one is only half the size of

my thumb.

Less than a week ago this is what I saw on my bean plants.

The most delicate pink flowers, so small that you would not believe in three days, 

they would have become

  these -------

 Still small, but in another couple of days,

they will be big enough to eat.

      There is even one lonely green capsicum,

     I hope it will soon have some company.

Most of my vegetables grow in large green boxes, that are watered from below.

These are my Lebanese cucumbers, they are already starting to wander of the table!!!

On the side of the box is the plastic tube that I must fill with water to keep the soil moist. The theory is great, but sometimes I find it very difficult to reach the tube.

Yesterday it suddenly occurred to me ,

if I poked a short piece of hose pipe down the tube,

I could pour the water down that.

IT WORKS!!

Tomorrow I am going to buy a small funnel which I will push into the end of the hose and life will be even easier!

 Here is my strawberry box, my little hose makes it much easier to place the water just where I want it.

I am 66 now and I have just solved  this watering problem.Shows you are never too old to learn!!!!!!!

Until next time -------- enjoy your garden!

A Dogs Christmas!!

Christmas is such a tiring time when you are only six months old!

When you are older you learn to put up with all the funny clothes and just sit!

But puppies can be such a problem. 

Midnight just doesn't get the idea of Christmas hats!!

Thank goodness he has gone to sleep at last!

Happy Christmas from Me

And me too!

Until next Time ------- Have a Wonderful Day!

A Christmas Tradition

I think gingerbread houses are becoming a tradition at our house.

For the las two years Jess and Indie have gone to 

William Angliss and made a gingerbread house together.

This year they both made houses at home for special gifts.

Just look at these.

Of course Nacho had to be part of it all.

Midnight was not allowed into the kitchen, 

his nose now reaches the top of the table, and a long pink toungue might try and sample the goodies!!

Apart from houses, Jess makes gingerbread biscuits,

they are my downfall, 

I cant stop eating them because they are so thin and crispy.

Heaven in a biscuit!!!!!!!

Until next Time ------ Enjoy Life!